miss me ladies?

[bongogocrazy]

Hey everyone i am back. I was on vacation since the 16th. my damn flight home got cancelled after delaying it every 2 hours of waiting till was there 8 hours. then said no flight till tommorow. rented a car and drove 450 miles to vegas. and caught a flight from there home.

was a fun vacation. but i am happy to be back.

[Kolba]

Nobody cared

[Nate]

I cared Was it amazing?

[ShUgaSHaNe]

wb yo !

[Myoga-]

Sup dawg, I thought you quit since we received no warning of your absence

I was gonna make a thread about you in another day or so if you didn't show up

[PiNk]

I wasn't aware you were gone.

[bongogocrazy]

i missed you too. i was on vacation out of state. now i wish i didn't go. got round trip ticket for my b-day. then got stuck at an airport on way home cause the pilots got stuck at different airport and i had no way home, wait 14 hours for next plane. or do what i did. i lost 800 bucks. i lost it cause i spent it. rental, drove 450 miles, got speeding ticket 110 in a 75. i can take pic of it or scan it into computer for proof, then 7 or 8 hours later arrived in vegas at their air port. then paid 163 for 1 way ticket for a 40 minute flight.

i was in st. louis, missouri, flew to salt lake city, utah. got stuck there. drove from there to vegas. was there from 330am till 620am. then flew home. landed at 7. got rental drove rest of way home. got to town at 830am.

did all that on 5 hours of sleep.




i left oct 16th. was suppose to be home 12noon sunday. didnt get home till monday at 9am.

was a vacation. if i could take that time off again and start over, i would have locked myself in a basement and slept instead.



but i do have some good news. my ex and i started talking and decided to meet up to talk in person. and we talked over our differences and what happened. we are back together now. we talked about what happened and why everything happened. it was because when we were mad we wouldn't talk. so now we know we can't let that happen and we will learn to stop a fight before it happens.

im not gonna go too much into full details. but we are going to not give up again. we took each other for granted and that was one of our biggest problems. well really that was like the only problem. but after not speaking to each other for 2 months we couldn't take our eyes off each other. we have a few things we have to patch up and fix because of the break up. but we are willing to do whatever it takes to stay together.



there was a couple things i didn't like too much about her. her hair was plain brown and i wanted her to bring life to it but i didn't want to pick a color. well she did it herself and i love how it looks. she wants to get it done now at a salon place to have it done pro way. another thing was she wasn't much for going out to have a good time. now every friday she goes out for a drink then dances. so this friday gonna go for a drink and dance. she has changed soo much and im loving all the changes ive seen so far. only thing that hasn't changed was the love she has/had for me. i could tell we both love each other more than we did the 3 years we were together. after this post we are not speaking of the 2 month bump in the road. we broke up aug 20th. and offically put ourselves back together yesterday. but we have been talking for a few days to make sure we like what each other have done with ourselves.

im gonna take off now. gonna go stop by her work to say hi, hang for a minute. then maybe see if there is anything in the area i need to do or stop by. pick up my roommate an hour from now. then head home for a little bit. then me, my gf, her sister, and her bf are gonna get together and talk and maybe have a bite to eat.

if you have any questions about my vacation or what happened between me and my back to gf status pm me. i won't post anything else after this of what happened.

[HotZhot]

nice to hear that, i always enjoy a story about people learning from their own experiences and mistakes

[bongogocrazy]

last night was pretty fun. i picked up my girl from work and we went back to my pad and we were kicking back and i asked her if she wanted to do anything, go out on the town or just relax. she said whatever and that if i wanted to go out she would go change and we go out.

so she changed and we went to my bar. poor girl. she isn't used to a real bar, i mean a bar that isn't cheap with their drinks. i could tell she should stop and i ordered her a water to keep her from getting too smashed on a work night. she took a couple sips and was like "I don't want water..." so I got her another drink. poor thing. she couldn't stand anymore. I stayed right next to her the whole night, and it was funny cause the girls at the bar don't usally stare at me, maybe glace and do their own thing. but there was a group of 4 girls last night who seen us hiding off in the back where it was more quiet and they wanted up and started playing pool behind me. i glanced over to notice the blonde in the group bend over the pool table to give me a view of her ass. and i was with my girl and i didn't want to disrespect my girl so i turned my head away and gave my girl a soft warm kiss and whispered in her ear stuff you little kids don't need to hear. oh that made the girls try even harder to get my attention. i then turned, smiled, then grabbed my girl and went outside and have a smoke then got in the car and went back to my place. i felt soo bad cause she was soo drunk last night. she is used to places that messure the shots. my bar, when i walk in they have to go open a new bottle of what day it is. fridays and saturdays are the good days. sunday and monday i usally try and stay sober. tuesdays are off and on. tonight im just gonna chill. then tommorow night i think ill run to the store and buy a 36 pack and a couple bottles to make a mixed drink for my girl. friday we are going to check out her little bar she has been wanting me to go with her to. she said she likes to go there and have a couple drinks then dance. so friday we gonna check it out.